I have come across many posts and had many conversations with people about the characteristics of a "Wife" and how being a Hoe, Whore, Slut, Hussy and Tramp will never be in that number.. And rightfully so.
The issue, however, comes when a man/woman has committed these Tramp-like offenses and resorts to belittle others who have done the same. You see them everywhere, usually quoting things like "You can't turn a Hoe into a Housewife" or "Check their HOEfax" .. Now, while these catch phrases are amusing at times, they're not true. Now I'm not referring to the "Side-Chick" right now, that's a whole other blog!
Is it true that someone who made the choice to go down the wrong path can never make it in life?.. Is it true that a single mother cannot fulfill her purpose in life because she didn't do things "in order?"... Is it true that the person who graduated with honors in high-school can't flunk out of college? And is it true that someone who indulges in sexual activities with different partners can NEVER experience true love?
Our society will lust over the images portrayed by Nicki, Kim, Amber, Miley, Madonna and more.. and If these established women were to cross our paths, most men won't even think about a "HOE-fax" and may even offer to be the Housewife.
Now, men and women alike, you don't want to date a former Tramp, that is sooooooo your prerogative. But don't BE a former tramp, who belittles another Tramp or former Tramp and expect your "Hoe-Fax" to not also be pulled. You used to be the town hoe and changed, but won't date the town hoe who can change.. No no no.. You want Virgin Mary to pop up and love you for you..
If you've indulged in a promiscuous lifestyle, it's ok; but you must make the decision to change! Someone WILL love you past your faults.. God does, and He's willing to bestow so much love on to the man/woman HE sends, that they can't do anything but let it overflow onto you. Find out the reasons why you may have this issue, because it is an issue, and then work at fixing it and loving you more! The only explanation about your past that you must give is to the one who is willing to love you in spite of.. Forgive yourself and move on.
